So it was just you and a buncha fat chicks... NICE DUDE

What's wrong with this site? The boards have supposedly been down for maintenance for ages!!! C'mon, oxygen, get with the program!

Are you joking? Need black judges so an black person can win??? really?? My Black brother, my Black husband, my Black cousin all thought Ruben won fair and square. Stop crying like a four year old. Although I will say that the final threee were my favorites from the beginning.

Ruben i think you did a great job... For all the people who think that he won because you feel he was telling sob stories i think you are wrong...This show was dance your a** off and just cause someone might be facing a bad time in there life with a family mbr or a lover does not mean that the judge is going to keep them on.Ruben won because he put his all into it (i am not saying that no one else didn't place there all in though...) ruben you did a great job and i hope that jon is doing fine...and remember keep dancing your a** off

WOW!!! Ruben you look super, I am sooo happy for you and your partner, hope he is doing well, my thoughts are with you both.

Well, it's over. I can't believe I got that much into this show even to the point of blogging about it. Just so not me, normally. Oh well her I go again, last time. I was so happy to see all the contestants on the final show. I would have liked to have seen more of the professional dancers of the top five winners. I feel all the top five were winners in the fact they they worked so hard and got to the top five. When I saw the weight loss on Alicia, the mommy lady, the bald guy (please forgive but I can't remember their names right now) I was awed needless to say. So I just have to blog once more to say I have such respect for what they all did and accomplished that I can't even tell you. I too hated to see each one go. The funny guy who kept pulling his shirt off, lol, etc. I have to say I loved Alicia too because I kinda felt her pain and could see what she was going through and dealing with as she tried to express to us. I am glad she was herself and let her real self show. That was a lot to put out there on nationwide tv like that. But that was her experience with the weight etc. and she was and is very passionate about losing it and the baggage she has felt in carrying it so long. Leave my girl alone. She came through as a person who really needed this and wanted this not just for herself but for her family as well. She kind of saw the need for it and went for it. I feel she is just as big a winner for her effort and what she accomplished in the competition. I saw her improvement in the dancing also and movement. She had big legs so it was hard for her and I saw her trying. I feel she deserved the position she wound up in as well as the 5,000. I never expected to see her lose that much so soon after going home. I knew she would try but she really wasn't playing with it. Props to her and her family, I know they had to have done their part as they said they would about not bringing all the garbage food into the house. Props to the bald guy and his family. Now down to the real nitty gritty. Rueben worked hard for what he got. I didn't know that him and John met when he was just 17 and John was 40 something. Maybe I wouldn't have felt the same and said they seemed like loving people had I known. But it being years later and Rueben seems to be okay with it I'll leave that between them and their families because my take on that is not pretty. Everyone is different though and sometimes their are rare situations when something is fated to be and it works out. I do feel that 17 year olds can be taken advantage of by those many years over them but I hope Rueben is and will be alright because I still like him and feel he worked hard for that and did well especially being the oldest. I don't know if he used John's condition or not but it was a contest and they did ask him those questions. If he used it I'm sure he must have meant it because I felt it and aren't you supposed to use everything to your best interest as long as it's moral and legal. The only way it wouldn't be moral is if he didn't meant it. Now down to the real. The only part as I've so stated that I didn't like is what I feel was done to Shayla. I still feel she should have won if it was the dancing that was judged, Rueben next and Rueben if it was the weight. Someone said the women should be judged differently because more is expected of them in the dancing part and men lose weight faster and easier. Also the largest always lose more and faster. Also it was said they should have all been made to do the same dances. I feel all of this is true but would it have been as exciting if all were made to do the same dances? All in all except for the two lady judges and I use that term loosely because I just didn't like them. Please take them off the next show if there is going to be one. I feel they were jealous of Shayla and it showed among other things. I feel the only time they gave her props was because they felt they had to sometimes or everyone would have noticed which most people did anyway. Because if you can see at all most people were able to see that Shayla was the best. If you're as professional as they tried to portray themselves then you don't let anything get in the way of your professional judgment and they did. I loved the judge, Danny and give him props because he fit the show and was professional, on point most of the time, charismatic, charming, sexy, smile(well as you can see I liked him). Also because he knew that Shayla was the best and he's the only one of the judges that tried to treat her accordingly. The show went so well and everyone was in their proper place as far as the time frame of when each one left the show except for Shayla. The judging on her performances sucked. She should have gotten many more tens straight through like Rueben did. Shayla is the only reason I begin to watch, kept watching and when she didn't win wanted to stop watching except I wanted to see if she was alright and they were going to correct it, acknowledge it or do something for her. I'm glad I continued to watch and saw the reunion because it took some of the sour note behind Shayla out of me. They were all so awesome on the reunion show and I was so glad to see that they all were continuing being winners. Props to them all.

LOL. RuBen doesn't blog. He said so on Facebook.

your last dance was sheer joy-i will really miss watching you and hillary-best wishes for john's speedy recovery love and peace

Ruben have to say you were the best!!! I really enjoyed watching you !!

Whatev......

LOL............

android r u gonna post this same exact comment on every site??????

All of r just wrong & disrespectful. Instead of bashing one another just go to my shopping cart and buy some weight loss products for those, you think they need to lose weight. Oh yeah! you have no money, it figures.

All of r just wrong & disrespectful. Instead of bashing one another just go to my shopping cart and buy some weight loss products for those, you think they need to lose weight. Oh yeah! you have no money, it figures.

All of r just wrong & disrespectful. Instead of bashing one another just go to my shopping cart and buy some weight loss products for those, you think they need to lose weight. Oh yeah! you have no money, it figures.

All of r just wrong & disrespectful. Instead of bashing one another just go to my shopping cart and buy some weight loss products for those, you think they need to lose weight. Oh yeah! you have no money, it figures.

All of r just wrong & disrespectful. Instead of bashing one another just go my shopping cart and buy some weight loss products for those, you think they need to lose weight. Oh yeah! you have no money, it figures.

Ruben you are too sweet!..you did a good job...Shayla was my fav but i also enjoyed watching you. You did awesome by constantly losing weight each week.....congrats on winning...i hope you take great care of your partner!.

shut up melissa. what r u taking

i think they was feeling sorry for you. don't get me wrong you was good. but not better than shayla. but anyways keep losing the weight. you look good ruben

SHAYLA - SHAYLA - SHAYLA - SHAYLA - SHAYLA - SHAYLA - SHAYLA - SHAYLA - PINKY - PINKY - PINKY - PINKY - PINKY - PINKY - PINKY - PINKY - PINKY - PINKY They both danced circles around you with regard to agility, ability, athleticism, energy... For being a supposed 'pro' all of your performances were painfully slow and nothing short of boring, period! Pretty little ballet hand movements did NOT merit 9s or 10s, very sad! Only energy you ever showed was flipping & tossing Hillary. Face it, she was ALWAYS the main focus on the dance floor & it was obvious that the only people watching U dance were the 3 judges.

OH RUBEN THE ONLY REASON YOU WON WAS BECAUSE YOU WERE THE BIGGEST HOG ON THE SHOW THEREFORE YOU WERE ABLE TO LOSE MORE WEIGHT THAN THE OTHERS AND SECOND OF ALL EVERYONE FELL FOR YOUR CONSTANT SOB STORIES ABOUT YOUR GAY GRANDFATHER ER I MEAN LOVER. EWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!

I agree with alot of people you were good but shayla was a better dancer. You were better at losing weight which lets be honest you had more to lose from so it was of course easier for you but if were going off dance she was way better.

I am not a reality show fan, but I have to admit that I fell into this one at about Episode 4, then obsessively went through my DVR until I found the first three episodes, and I was hooked. My DVR didn't record the final weigh in show, so I had to wait a week to find out who won. I was rooting for you, Ruben, the whole way. I know you had previous dance experience, but so did Pinky, and Shayla was a cheerleader, so no surprise the three of you made it to the top. At the end, though, it was three tough professionals who all had equal amounts of skill and talent, and it was a hard game. You came through on EVERY episode with 110% effort, and I was thrilled to see you win. That said, this is the first reality show I've ever watched where I was sorry to see each and every contestent as they lost. Seems like there is an idea for a franchise in there somewhere. :) GREAT JOB!! Best of luck to your partner, and good for you for realizing that you have value, too!!

I have read many comments praising Ruben's relationship with John...Ruben was 17 yrs old when they met..John ( A.K.A..Dirty old man)..was 42 yrs. old!! This is disgusting!! Could you imagine your son, nephew, little brother in Ruben's shoes? I think Ruben was & IS in a very unhealthy, abusive relationship for way too long!!! His weight was just a symptom of this. TAKE THE MONEY & RUN RUBEN!!!

I cant get over the change and the weight that you had lost. Keep going!

YEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You deserved it! I'm sooooooooooo PROUD of YOU!!!

AUSTIN FOR YOU TO TELL OTHERS TO GET A LIFE YOU SURE HAVE RESPONDED A LOT.YOUR FULL OF sh*t HE SHOULD NOT HAVE WON AND YOU KNOW IT!!!!!!!!

Ruben, you really did deserve to win. You worked very hard and it showed. I hope you continue to live a long and healthy life.Im glad to hear you are taking a vacation. Please dont pay attention to the disrespectful posts. It is apparent they had judges for a reason. I didnt always agree with them but Im sure contestants and viewers didnt always agree either. They did a great job. I like you from the beginning. My favorites were you and Pinky. Your personalities and hard work really shinned through. Again congrats.

Rueben, you know Shayla did a better job...you should give her $10,000. We need to start making people more accountable. I have nothing against Rueben...I think he's a good guy, but being a good guy vs knowing you shouldn't have won equals honorable to me. Rueben, you need to speak up!

Ruben, you looked wonderful and sounded even better. Your own recovery could not have come at a better time, not only to maintain your own positivism and good health, but as caregiver for John. Taking care of yourself is paramount but easy to forget when living with illness. May the love around you sustain you both.

there was no surprise there when ruben won,i mean ruben was always on top,and if he didn't make it as far as he did that would have been shocking. WAY TO GO RUBEN!!!

I KNEW FROM THE BEGINNING YOU WERE GOING TO WIN. SO DID ALOT OF MY FRIENDS. JUST THE WAY YOU DANCED. I KNOW SHAYLA AND PINKY GAVE YOU A RUN FOR THE MONEY. CONGRADULATION AGAIN. KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK.

Congrats Ruben!!!!! You won!!!!! After all that hard work, c'mon you know you deserve it. You lost A LOT of pounds, seeing you motivates me and others that being fit is healthy and very good for you. Ah my goodness, WHOOT WHOOT RUBEN!

ruben don't worry about all the negative comments they can kiss your skinny $10000.00 dollar rich a**!

Ruben, you did a wonderful job out there on the dance floor throughout the entire season of the show!! I dont watch tv that much, but i was ALWAYS awaiting the show to come on every monday!! I loved your motivation and your lively attitude about it. You did a great job and you have motivated me to lose weight as well :D Dont let the negative people get you down Ruben.. You won!! Fair and square... You deserve it!! We all love you Ruben!!! Your are freaking awesome!!!

Pam, people are not rude when they express their opinion as to who was the best dancer. Rue, you think Ruben was the best dancer, but I did not see him doing flips, splits, etc. not anything the women were required to do. Ruben lost the most weight, but not the best dancer. Everyone is biased, based on sex, race, gender. The best da.ncer is Shayla and if all of you can not see that, go out and purchase a white cane with a red tip and buy a seeing-eye-dog, cuz ya'll trippin'. AND was that you Anne that called someone dumb, cuz they were spelling like text language. Get with it er'body text n r understood. Git wit it gurl. Whuteva!! (and im over 50 years old) Holla!!!!

Ruben definitely won on weight loss, b/c there was no competition between he and Shayla. Shayla danced circles around Ruben. Shayla is the only reason I continued to watch the show. Men do not dance like women and it was totally unfair to judge them accordingly. Ruben walked around the dance floor and did some "Ta Da" presentations and extended his arms and held up his partner, but Shayla and the other women were expected to do ten times more than the men had to do. It was not a fair judging. BTW, the judges made sure that Ruben won. They would have to b a bunch of idiots not to see that the men had nothing on the women. SHAYLA was the winner and was jipped out of $95,000. Ruben and John are one of the few gay couples that do not have tons of money. I got nothing against gays, but John is not going thru anything that a ton of people are not going thru. People hate to look at TV competition b/c it is always rigged. Next time judge the women seperately from the men. Or make them do the same dances. Don't choose their dance partner; let them draw the names, so that it is not fixed. If the partners were chosen for them, that is not fair. Nevertheless, Shayla was the best dancer. One last comment. I could not stand Alicia and her crying a**. That mole worked my nerves and so did her tamtrums. I am so glad she was not in the final three. I could not stand one more bucked tooth cry from her. BUT, she looked damn good at the reunion. Don't know how she lost all that weight - prob got a tummy tuck, boob lift and lipo suction from her calves, but she would be a knock out if she would go to the dentist and remove that freakin' mole.

ruben only won because his partner was sick and he was a professional dancer I dont hear any1 questioning that except for Mara who was brave enough I for 1 will not purchase the cd neither will I watch next season shayla was tha audience pick and hey let's face it even pinky came a far way from behind and yet the judges felt sorry for reuben's partner and stole the competition for him I'm done

As you can see by my comments I really got into this show. I feel slightly better like maybe I can watch the next group of contestants now that they gave Shayla some sort of props for being the fan favorite. I knew she was going to get that. If she didn't then I just don't know. As I've said before I've never gotten into a reality show or any show this deep but Shayla is special and it came through. I was really pulling for her from the beginning. Why didn't they put that part on about her wanting to give the money to her parents in the beginning like they put the others reasons for wanting the money on. Anyway when I saw her on the reunion and she seemed okay with it all because she knows all she got out of the show and she knows she's a winner I feel better. Thank God they gave her something she deserved. But I still think they should give her a show because she has a following now and would make a lot of money for them. She's talented and very effervescent. I believe she's like me, there's nothing she can't do with God's help if she makes up her mind to do it. Give her her own show. I still can't stand those two female judges. Take them off the next show. I still say they judged Shayla wrong, unfairly and differently from everyone else. They put higher standards on her and judged her more harshly. When Mara whom I also like was shown in a peek preview saying a dance should have been a ten, I thought and was hoping she was talking about Shayla' last dance. I really wanted that to be addressed on the reunion show and felt the undercurrent was there because everyone knew. Also I hoped that they would have focused more on Shayla's and Ruebens dance partner more. I wished they would have asked Shayla to expound on him and allowed him to say something and be seen more. Because Shayla and her dance partner shined to me more than any of the others as a team. I also feel Rueben's dance partner showcased him to make him look his best. I give him props for being so receptive and able to pick up well. I'm glad they at least gave Pinky's dance partner a little time. I thought it was fitting that Shayla and Rueben came out last instead of Pinky and Rueben also.

I haven't been on since last Mon, so I am now just reading Ruben's comments. I'm glad you pay no attention to the rude people. You have a lot of supporters and I can't believe how emotional I got watching the reunion tonight. Everyone had been doing great. Keep up the good work. Take that vacation when John gets out of the hospital. Wish there was a way to keep blogging with you. Don't know what happens now that the show is over for this season.

I am not sure who you're speaking about but if you can read it and understand it, get over it. I gave my opinion and you gave yours. Just leave it like that. Shayla was great throughout the show. They were giving her 8s and 9s when it was suppose to be 10s. The judges knew who they wanted to win and that is who won. I do not know the reason they judge as they did but it was NOT fair. They gave everyone in the finale a ten but the person that deserved it. If you can not understand that then maybe you graduated from JC PENNY college. But I said what I said and if you ddin't understand then maybe it was not meant for you to read or understand.

DUMB PERSON, YOU NEED TO LEARN HOW TO SPELL. THIS IS NOT A TEXT MESSAGE BLOG, THIS IS SPELLING AND GRAMMAR. WHERE DID YOU GO TO SCHOOL. JC PENNEY COLLEGE? YOU NEED TO NOT USE THIS sh*t WHEN YOU ARE WRITING BLOGS. SOME PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND THIS JIBERISH JUNK. PLEASE SPELL THE WORDS, WE ARE HUMAN, NOT SPACE ALIENS.

SHAYLA SHOULD HAVE WON. THROUGOUT THE COMPETITION SHE SHOWED OFF. SHE DID THINGS THAT NONE OF THE CONTESTANT WOULD HAVE DONE. IT WAS NOT RIGHT. AND THE PERSON WHO THE FAN WANTED TO WIN DID NOT WIN. WHAT WAS IT. WERE THEY NOT SEEING THE SAME THING WE WERE. THE ONLY THING RUBEN WAS DOING WAS SPINNING A WOMEN AROUND. SHAYLA WAS JUMPING, SPINNING, TURNING & SO MUCH MORE THAN ANY ONE ELSE. WHY DIDN'T SHE REALLY WIN????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

OMG RUBEN! How can you get on this show?? I am in love with you and your dancing....

i also feel that,if it wasn't for that flexible girl that ruben was partnered with,he probably would have gone home!!!

BTW, that was in reply to Kellie's comment.

I believe they said on one of the shows that they actually weigh them in the morning so the brace wouldn't have added any weight.

ruben,you know you cheated!! you know you took som weight loss pills!!! no fair!!!

(sorry for misspelling your name Shayla) :(

Ruben, your being in the contest was unfair from the very beginning. You are professionally trained in dance (ballet) so it's no wonder you had the advantage in the dancing aspect of this contest. Not to mention the fact that you also "performed professionally" (as you stated in one interview). Your being in this contest is absolutely no different than if the producers had padded Mr. Lucky, Paul or Italo with 100-pounds and then letting them dance as "contestants" while taking off 5 to 10 pounds of padding per week. The fact remains that these 3 "pros" have danced professionally, just as you were also trained. The fact remains that it was grossly unfair to ALL the 11 other contestants to have to compete against a "professionally trained" dancer, even though Shaly and Pinky honestly showed the most progress (and elegance) throughout this competition. I think a more fair "reality" show for you (Ruben) would have been to appear on "The Biggest Loser" where it was a matter of weight loss only. Cudos on your weight loss; you did an awesome job in that area.

I hate that you won....

Now that I took another look at the last weigh in I see Pinky really was jipped. The brace she had to wear when she weighed in I know weighs alot so I don't think the last weigh in was her actual weight loss. I bet she lost a good 6 lbs if she wouldn't of had that thing on.

RUEBEN YOU ARE THE WINNER. THE BEST DANCER. LET THEM CHAT ALL THEY WANT> SHAYLA WAS NOT THE BEST > SHE WAS GOOD NOT THE BEST RUEBEN YOU WON. FAIR

I think that they were hard on shayla but i think Ruben won. i think he really needed the money for a good reason. I know he kept talking about his partner and how he didnt have any insurance so i think it happened like that for a reason. Now maybe the judges made it so he would win because they wanted him to help his partner who knows but i believe the best man won. Not saying that shayla was not a good dancer and didnt need the money but i am sayin she carried this attitude sometimes to where she knew she looked better and should be the one to win just because of that reason. Or maybe its just me, But she was wonderful and i though some of the time she should have gotten a better score but i think ruben is a really good person from what i can tell on tv so i am very happy for him and hope he and his partner are doing well.

Uhmm, you don't sound so humble here!

Can someone tell me where is ruben originally from? whats his ethnicity? he looks asian to me..

I also would like to give the professional dance partners their props. Shayla's and Rueben's partners always made them look their best and was top notch themselves and pro's..., I can't begin to tell you... I do not believe that Shayla and Rueben couldl have shined as well as they did without these excellent people. Having said that, I feel all of the professional dance partners were good. But the performers who performed the best had professional dance partners who knew to put them out their in their best light to shine and perform beside them to compliment them to the best. Excellent, Excellent, Excellent! Props to you all and especially to Shayla's partner, just wonderful! Also Rueben's and Pinky's partner next and then all the rest. You all were good.

Let me say this. I do not want to take away from Rueben or any of the other performers in any way in giving props to Shayla. Rueben you were all that too. I fell in love with you too. Just second to Shayla. I fell in love as I said with a few others. Just after Shayla and then after you. I'm sure you could care less because you won and have the one hundred thousand dollars. LOL You don't need my props. But I'm giving them to you anyway. Knowing you and all the wonderful performers that was on the show you all probably do care because you all seem like a very caring group of people. I like Danny too. The only Judge that I liked and feel he had charisma, graciousness, expertise, charm and a very discerning eye. He knew Shayla's last performance was a ten also. Also I wish the best to you and John. Know that we're all praying for you both and that the money helps in his recovery. You all seem like two loving people and I wish you the best too.

For all of you who keep saying "men lose weight faster than women" - remember, they did the weight by PERCENTAGE of weight lost, not the NUMBER of pounds lost. Ruben - you did great, and I hope John is doing better as well.

I feel that Shayla should have won if it depended on the dance skills. I feel that her last performance as well as other performances of hers were tens. If it depended on weight loss and the next best performer in the dances then Rueben should have gotten it, then Pinky. They had it right, all the way up until they put Pinky above Shayla. I didn't complain as long as they kept passing Shayla on to the next level. Shayla and Rueben should have been the last two to duke it out. I feel the judges were extremely and extra hard on Shayla throughout the whole contest. I don't know it they felt Rueben's story was better for the show or in the end Pinkys story because she was a struggling dancer. I don't know if it was because of Rueben's story with his partner, John. I personally feel the two females was jealous of Shayla from day one. You can see it in their faces at times they couldn't even hide it. They reluctantly gave her her props because they had no choice at other times. Because from day one Shayla was the reason I watched and I felt she was the one to watch. She was by far the best dancer and improved with each performance in every way. Danny knew that and acknowledged that. He also appreciated that this young lady, Shayla was hot, sexy, a winner in talent and personality. She worked hard and lost the weight also, even though she was sexy from day one. I'm a female and not gay but anyone can see this is a dynamite young lady. She can dance in any contest. She has skills. She did it smooth and with ease. She pointed her toes, did flips, back and front. Splits and on and on. What does it take? They gave people that wasn't half as good as her better scores. She was a dancer in every since of the word. She did it with grace and style and was humble. They told Pinky that knowone had it on her with the upper body but did they tell Shayla that knowone had it on her with the lower body. The way did what she did with those legs was awesome, come on. Everyone else was clumpy and you could see their trying compared to her. She made it look so easy but she worked her tail off in order to do that. I loved her from the beginning to the end. I know with the strong father support and her major skills and winning ways she will take all the positives with her on to her next level in life and leave all the negatives behind. Shayla you made some fans and we want to see you again. Let me say I also became a fan of Ruebens and Pinky too especially Ruebens, and a couple of others, I can't think of their name right now and saw their hard work and trying too. Just second and third and on down the line to Shayla. Yes, I watched the show from day one and love it mostly because of Shayla. I almost started to not watch it again, except when the reunion was coming I wanted to see more of Shayla and her progress and Rueben and a few others that I liked but mostly Shayla. What can I say, I'm not a fan type but she made a fan out of me and a whole lot of other people I know who was watching and following it with me. They feel the same way I do about Shayla. The others that I liked was the last guy (who was bald) to go off the show before Rueben and Alicia and The last young lady to go off before it came down to just Pinky Rueben and Shayla. I felt that she should have been one of the last to go as he was, so that was fair. I also was so glad Alicia got the S5,000.00 as she did, so that was fair. I felt she deserved that and was glad they came up with that. I felt it should have went to the other one to win, the bald guy that I liked, if not her, so that was fair. All in all I felt it was pretty fair except for the way they did Shayla. They should come up with something for her. Maybe her own show because she now has a following. But if not Shayla, look at what you've accomplished and you know you're the best.

ruben i am so sorry for the rude comments this is the apology you were looking for and i understand you need that phone call to see your friend john ad now i am rooting for you.

Why all the negative comments on who lost and won?? And what someone sexuality is.. gay or not, If it is so easy.. why didnt any of you get on the show. You have got to give credit where it is due. And I am sure that your mothers taught you some morals... Dont say anything if you dont have something nice to say. Opinions count only in certain situations, and when asked. Comments section is to congratulate, say way to go.. great job. Etc.. come on people.. BE NICE!!! there is too much bad in this world.. Ruben , Pinky , and Shayla all did wonderful.Would the comments be the same if Pinky, were a lesbian?? How about Shayla Bisexual?? It is a contest people.. the best won. So if you cant handle a reality show.. dont watch it anymore if you are taking it personal. With that said.. Great job Ruben!!!

there whole day was wieght lost. free ppl helpin diet exercise an all if we had dat all day for 10 weeks payed who couldnt loose da weight? Gud Job to all who lost weight an keep it up. OMG everybody can talk sh*t wen da person who day liked aint win jus look at it as if it a show an u dont f*ckin kno dese ppl an if u dont like da choice dont watch it, it's fun to watch a see da weight lost ppl can drop wen u put ur heart into it. i love to eat iam a PHAT gurl lol Pretty hot & tempin

Was very glad that you won. Pulled for you during the entire competition. Everyone worked hard but ppl don't understand how the bigger you are the harder it is to move with grace and elegance. When you've changed so much physically the training you'd had would still be there mentally but I know it doesn't just come without work. You did a fantastic job! I hope ALL the best for you and John and hope his health is getting much better. You obviously love each other and true love is SO hard to find.

I enjoyed the finale. All three were wonderful. I wanted all of them to win. Pinky is so cute and bubbly, energetic and determined. Shayla is just plain beautiful, centered, grounded, and watching her dance is like watching a waterfall - she just seems to glide across the floor. I love Ruben's passion for life, and his decision to finally do something for himself. It isn't easy to step out of your comfort zone. Ruben has always been grace and style in the ballroom dancing, and Shayla and Pinky excelled in other styles. It was fun to watch all of them. Each of them has his/her own strength. Pinky is very hip hop and spunky, and she has a very kind heart. Shayla is very fluid and exudes not only great confidence but beauty and grace. Ruben was totally committed and a very elegant dancer, especially in things like the tango, waltz, and foxtrot. I think all of them won, even those who left long before the finale. Well, with the possible exception of Alicia, who seemed to be fake, self-centered, and childish. I loved Trice and Mara, they were so gracious when they had to leave, and Miles was a kick to watch. Ruben worked hard for this win, and despite what everyone else thinks, he should be proud that he persevered and was committed to the program.

Ruben, I am sorry but I don't think America shares your opinion

o won

To take it one step further, Ruben did a great job and may have won competing against men, but on the other hand, maybe not as the competition would have been much harder.

As a dance instructor and former weight consultant I need to say that the fairness of this competition was way out there. First, it is very true....because of their body makeup men WILL lose weight faster than women. If you ake a man and a woman doing the exact same things and eating the same foods for 1 week you will see that the man will lose more than the woman. This competition should have been split into 2 groups. One for men and one for women. The women were better dancers and obviously have to work harder than the men. Ruben did great but I dont think he should have won. The clincher was....by only 4 oz????

love you Ruben and you and John have fun and alway keep believeing in your self because you deserve it you are a wonderful enjoying dancer and a great guy your personality far exceeds your dance skills and your dance skills couldn"t get much better. so for all the negative people I say to bad so sad that you are so jealous .

TO all of " MY FAITHFUL FOLLOWERS"??? What are you??? GOD?

CONGRATS REBUEN YOU DID IT DO NOT LISTEN TO THE HATERS YOU DID GREAT AND LOST THE MOST WEIGHT KEEP UP THE GOOD JOB.LOVE TO YOU AND JOHN

Ruben, God Bless you !! I think you were absolutely great, I have pulled for you everyweek and I think you and your dance partner did a fabulous job. CONGRATS way to go, keep upp the good work and remember to eat right.

Ruben!!Ruben!!Please don't let Hater"s get your goat!!!YOU WON!!!You Won a second chance" with John with out Cancer!!You Won The Money!!!You are Bless!!!Don't let Hater get your Goat !!!!Go Cowboy!!!!!!LOL Sandra From South Texas!!!!

SOMEBODY MADE A STATEMENT THAT YOU WON CAUSE MEN LOSE WEIGHT FASTER... SO NOT TRUE. YOU WON CAUSE OF YOUR DEDICATION, THE WOMEN ON THIS SHOW WERE ALWAYS CRYING N SAYING HOW THEY WERE STRESSED, HURT, AND HOW BEING FAT WAS HARD TO MOVE THEIR BODIES TO DANCE. YET RUBEN SET HIS DETERMINATION ON THE PRIZE AND WORKED HARDER... HE DESERVED IT! CONGRATULATIONS AGAIN RUBEN.

Right On. I agree, Ruben was nice but I could'nt believe that he won over the other last contestants. Watching the final judges points, I Could'nt believe it. I told my husband this will be the first and final time watching this show and would not recommend it to anyone.

Reuben I was so glad u won , u look fabulous i enjoyed your dances but more than that i was happy cause i know how much u care for your partner and how u said the money would help for his treatment , i pray god bless both of u and your partner gets a clean bill of health. both my daughters and i were crying , we were so happy and i wish u and ur family the best always i really loved the show and loved u shayla and pinky but i am really glad u won u deserved it , u seems like a decent and honest man

When this group of fearless people came together it was for a common goal.They allowed us to see themselves as they were,and if everyone was watching the same thing I was race.ethnicity,and preference of soul mates had and have nothing to do with what the show is about.It seems to me the ones making the hurtful remarks are the ones sipping on hater-aid.I loved watching all of them perform and marveled at the transformations that came from sweat and tears.I believed in them as well as the qualified judges.The The contestants that were on dance your a** off all had a common goal,lose weight and be rewarded for that accomplishment.There were no rigged scales and biased or racist judges,just except that hardwork has its rewards. I am proud of all of them and thank them for allowing me to watch their journey.Congratulations Ruben,you did yourself proud.

i have been a big fan of the show since the beginning. ruben was fantastic throughout the entire show. he was very consistent, very creative, & versatile. he did exactly what the trainer, nutritionist & dance partner told him to do. i have to believe that the bond between the contestants is very strong & caring. shayla and pinky are both beautiful women and i imagine they are just as proud of and happy for ruben as he would be for them. sure they would've loved to have won, who wouldn't? congrats ruben, you earned it, you deserve it...enjoy this moment. congrats to pinky & shayla as well! they both have such wonderful families that are very very proud...good luck, and i can't wait til monday.

YOU KNOW DEEP DOWN THAT YOU DIDN'T WIN ON YOUR DANCES SKILLS AND I THINK THIS SHOW WAS NOT APPROPRIATELY NAMED, YOU KNOW SHAYLA SHOULD HAVE WON THIS AND IF AMERICA HAD VOTED YOU WOULDNT HAVE WON SO CHEW ON THAT!!!

Furthermore, this comment ( who know's? maybe some of you are jealous). Once again...THE BEST, MOST TALENTED & BEAUTIFUL person WON!!! makes you sound pompus and you have lot of weight still to loose. Your still a fatty you should only be about 175 lbs for your height I mean seriously look at miles WOW!!

i do find it very odd that separate scales were used and they were computer generated??? interesting and as for your comment about being the best thats not true, your dance moves were ok, and certainly not deserving of almost perfect scores like you got! ALSO IT IS A PROVEN FACT THAT MEN LOSE WEIGHT FASTER THAN WOMEN>>>LOOK IT UP!!!!! THATS WHY YOU WON!!! YOU LOST THE MOST WEIGHT NOT BECAUSE YOU COULD DANCE THE BEST!!! SO BEFORE YOU SPOUGHT HATE KNOW YOUR FACTS

Is it? =(

I agree with Sista K's comments and that you did dance well. You did a fantastic weight loss job but in the end the judges [spilling of "hater-aid"] got you over and declared you as the winner--just let the TRUTH be told! P. S. "I see no reason as to why they would have each of you step on separate scales; that was just sooo unnecessary". Allowing separate scales just give the judges opportunity to declare winners.

Rueben you were the declared "winner" and I congratulate you on your declared win! It is not your fault that you won, but the subtle colaboration of the judges who assessed your dances! No one is upset with you because you won (by the judges dashing hater-aid) the competition. But, what the world viewer saw is that you did not win on merit of the dance but, by the judges'"OBVIOUS COVERT HATER-AID" assessment of Shayla. Also, who's to say that Shayla's scale was not calibrated accurately; on all of the previous shows everyone weighed on the same scale---hmmm, something to think about eh? I congratulate you on your "declared" win and wish you the best. I don't drink that "hator-aid" stuff...just tell the TRUTH!

To str8dude, you know NOTHING about dance and need to re-think your very unkind (and wrong)comments about Ruben. I am a professional dancer and teacher and Ruben did very well. Ruben should have won if only for one reason...he really lost the weight and let's face it...no one in the last few weeks danced bad. Give the guy a break and don't be so mean.

obviously this show has nothing to do with quality dancing, this guy ruben should not have been a finalist, he really sucked! what a non-dancing person. Scrap this show unless they want to get real.

I think the whole world knows that Shayla won the competition. This show reminds me of other shows where the cheat won, the q2uestion here is who was doing the cheating, I can only conclude it was the producers and the judges, what a sham!

FURTHER MORE IT IS A PROVEN MEDICAL FACT THAT MEN ARE CAPABLE OF DROPPING WEIGHT A LOT FASTER THAN WOMEN. THAT IS WHY YOU WON BECAUSE YOU DROPPED THE MOST WEIGHT NOT BECAUSE YOU WERE THE BETTER DANCER. YOU ALSO HAD THE BIGGEST WEIGHT LOSS WHICH PUT YOU WAY UP...NOT REALLY FAIR TO THE WOMEN IF WEIGHT HADNT BEEN A FACTOR I DO NOT THINK YOU WOULD HAVE WON.....SORRY AS A PROFESSIONAL DANCE INSTRUCTOR YOUR ROUTINES WERE NOT THE GOOD AND AMATEUR TO SAY THE LEAST THE GIRLS OUT DANCED YOU!!!!!

I think the females were robbed in this competition sorry to say. I congratulate you on your weight loss but lets be honest, the dance moves are way more complex and intense for the female in the dances. I think you won because you have a good partner that made you look good. Sorry but I think the girls were robbed

you look so great i think it should have been between you and shayla. ruben didn't look as good as u two and you both put in a lot more work.congrats on the wieght lost and hope u can keep it up

You won because you deserved to. Personally, I was also rooting for you because you are so sincere and appreciative of your partner John. You two reminded me of my partner of twenty years who passed away in 1992. Bless you always.

Ruben, I have to say that you are a huge inspiration. The show has inspired me to eat better and try to live more of a healthy lifestyle. I think you deserved the money the most so you can finally put you first and so you can help pay for Jon's medical bill. You also really inspired me with your love for Jon publicly. I'm gay myself and it was so nice to see you not care what others think about your relationship. I pray for Jon all the time for his cancer to get better and be healthy. Good Luck!

There is no way that is ruben posting those comments. He seems like way to nice of a guy to say those things. Plus you'd have to be a complete idiot to ruin your image by saying things like that. that is so not him.

Ruben may have won the show because he lost the most weight but the judges cheated Shayla out of getting straight 10's for her dance score. Ruben's routines sucked in a major way and they gave him 10's. He looked so stupid doing the Pasa Doble. You could tell he was a amateur but the judges praised him like he did a fantastic job. Oh plz spare me the bullsh*t okay!

Hello Ruben, I want to tell you! You are my biggest inspiration! Watching you on the show and hearing about your back ground and all you gave up in your life to go and do the show was amazing and I hope your partner is getting well. I feel you worked the hardest and you have made me decide to take control of my weight problem. I can't wait, I hope my results are as great as yours were! Congrats! I am your biggest fan and would be super happy to ever get to meet you and talk to you about the show! I live in California :) Redding CA it would be wonderful! -Crodgers

Hello Ruben, I want to tell you! You are my biggest inspiration! Watching you on the show and hearing about your back ground and all you gave up in your life to go and do the show was amazing and I hope your partner is getting well. I feel you worked the hardest and you have made me decide to take control of my weight problem. I can't wait, I hope my results are as great as yours were! Congrats! I am your biggest fan and would be super happy to ever get to meet you and talk to you about the show! I live in California :) Redding CA it would be wonderful! -Crodgers

I wish I could lose weight like that by just moving my behind. It's not easy though, because all of you had to put in alot of work and extra self control. Congrats for your winning.

I got some pills, who wants to lose weight? Right, just what i thought, nobody. Too busy typing smack on this page and dissing other. IDIOTS!

U girls rocked the show. I am very proud of Rueben because of his weight loss but his dances were not as difficult as the dances you two performed. Bottom line, you girls look absolutely beautiful. You look amazing and dance great as well. Stay strong and pls keep me posted on how you both are doing. www.myspace.com/trinityphotostudios

MY HUSBAND AND I WERE ROOTING FOR BOTH PINKY AND RUBEN. RUBEN I'M SORRY TO SAY THOUGH SOME OF PINKY'S DANCE WERE A HECK OF A LOT BETTER THAN YOURS. THE ONES YOU SCORED HIGH ON WERE YOUR WORST DANCES. I'M PROUD OF YOUR WEIGHT LOSS BUT I THINK THE SHOW WAS RIGGED.

I completely agree angela,the judges gave ruben a high score even at his worst perfomance,i think ruben cheated with laxitives, weight loss pills he was dropping weigh to fast.

Knock, knock..... who's there? Uh... u r IDIOTS!

I read the comments written by "Ruben" if it is him I think that his fans will be disappointed. I dont think that it is him. Does Oxygen DYAO monitor these boards at all? Some of the comments even posted seem so mean. All of these contestants worked hard. I thought it was a great freshman show. Congrats to everyone that participated and they all look great!

so what did you think everyone went on the show for to lose wait, you need to find you some business,i think shala should have won,and she is not fat thank you very much,ruben cheated and the judges,he took weight loss pills,laxitives to win with his bug eye a**.

I agree with you in regards to Pinky. Like I said I could not stomach her. I cringed having to look at her face each week. I'm so glad someone else feels the same way. I KNOW Ruben wrote that. It sounds like Ruben. What does Pinky think she is..someone special now??.." Ruben is such a positive, beautiful person.." PUUHHLEASEE..WE ALL KNOW Pinky does not talk like that in real life. I hope she's not deluding herself to think she was something other than another freak for this freak show.

What is Pinky doing on Ruben's page? She's probably Jealous that we like Ruben & NO ONE LIKES PINKY!!!! I don't Really like Ruben..but he's better than that angry midget PINKY!!!

Don't listen to anyone Ruben. We ALL love you here. We are glad you won. HOORAY for Ruben!

Ruben won for one reason and that is his dance partner. I have a hard time believing that if he were one of the woman who looked like sloppy fat girls, he would never have won. We look at the woman dancing, while the man is meerly an accessory. He wasn't THAT big to begin with and when he lost weight he looked OK beside a beautiful woman. Let's all be honest..looking at fat girls like Alicia, Pinky, Shayla, ect. are preety disgusting. They really did dress them like those dancing elephants at the circus.

The whole family has been watching Dance Your a** OFF!! We recorded & made it a family night. I was routing for Ruben after I heard about his whole story. I felt he needed the money the most. Alicia cried too much, Shayla got down w/ her partner & I could barely stomach Pinky..She never smiled & seemed TOO ANGRY.

I think the judges cheated Shayla out of a win. They really judged her unfairly. Pinky SHOULD have been gone a few SHOWS ago. She only got to the end because the show decided to throw in a LOOP DE LOOP LOL! Shayla was o.k. but Ruben was a DANCE INSRUCTOR. How is this fair? Not to mention the fact he's a man & men lose weight at least twice as fast a s women do..I have Q's

THE DANCES CHOREOGRAPHED WHERE GREAT.THEY REALLY WERE.I WAS A BIT DISSAPOINTED BY THE ENDING..THAT COWBOY THING REALLY HAD TO GO. YOU DO MUCH BETTER DANCING A LATIN DANCE WHERE U CAN SHOW YOUR MOVES.

When is there going to be ANOTHER DYAS???

The best person won...but how ****y is that?

Hello everyone. Please disregard the messages of Ruben on here. I am pretty sure it is not him making those comments. I will contact Ruben to check. Ruben is an amazing wonderful person full of positive energy. He wouldnt make these comments. But I will double check, if so then I missed something along the way. Lol. Pinky

I do agree with you; because Ruebon and his dance partner did not change their dance routine like Shayla and the other contestants.

my space stormey black

I was thrilled that you won.My best wishes for johns recovery.Let me know if there is anything I can do to help the two of you.Reach me at stormey black at mt space.Prayers and congrats!!

I A SO UPSET KATHLEENAS YOURSELF AT THE JUDGES. I THINK REUBEN'S PARTNER ILLNESS SHOULD HAVE BEEN BANNED FROM THE SHOW; IT SHOWED BIAS. SHAYLA SHOULD HAVE WON THAT COMPETITION. I'M SURE TH OTHR CNTESTANTS HAD SOMETHING GOING ON IN THEIR LIFE IN WHICH THE $100,000 PRIZE MONEY COULD HAVE COME IN HANDY FOR THEM BUT THEY DID'NT WINE ABOUT IT;THY JUT KEPT WORKING HARD. NEXT THEY WILL BE INTERVIEWING REUBEN WHEN THEY FIND OUT THAT HE LIED TO GAIN SYMPATHY.I AM MAD AS HELL AND THE SHOW SHOULD BE CALLED " SYMPATHY YOUR a** OFF"

Wow! Was that really Ruben on those blogs? It didn't sound like the Ruben from the show. He could of been fronting for the show. I guess?

now that you have won you are showing who you really are especially with comments like "I am the best", I don't care", "I won"during the competition you were so humble your partner has cancer, I use to be a dancer poor me. Shayla out danced you,got you on personality, did run the sympathy game. you only get credit for the weight loss. your current ****iness makes me wish you had loss.

ruben u r awesome im so happy u won. any advice 4 an overweight tx gal?

Ruben, I also rooted for you from the get go, you did an outstanding job!! And YES you did deserve to win, the show is called dance your a** off and you lost the most weight, don't let no one make you feel bad, cause you worked your tail off Congratulations, do't listen to all the haters. Keep your head up, and stay strong.

Ruben, You were my favorite from the very first time I watched the show, I routed for you every week and was so excited you won....you deserved it!!!!

I agree. The judges need to stick to judging the performers for their dance routine, and leave the sobb stories for Oprah.

I beleive the only reason why Ruben won was because the judges showed pitty for him. The judges were suppose to be pick a winner based on their dances routine, not their life stories. Ruben won because the judges felt sorry for him.

I disagree. Ruben, was not a better dancer than Shayla. Both Shayla's routines were flawless.

I agree. That cowboy routine was not even worth the score of a 9. I think the judges wanted Ruben to win. Shayla, deserved to earn a 10 in both her performances. Shayla, should have won.

Congratulations Ruben!! You deserve everything!!!

Ruben had prior dance experience as a TEACHER! It's not fair they judged the sexes together. That cowboy routine was hideous!! TOO BAD U WON.

I don't think that's our wonderful Ruben!!!

Shayla did not deserve that crown. Her final dances stunk. Ruben's weren't as great as Pinky's, but were way more enjoyable than Shayla's. I'm happy he won. I wanted him to win from day one. Love you, Ruben!

CONGRATS TO ALL THE CONTESTED..EVERYONE DID A GREAT JOB...YOU ALL LOOK GREAT..

i agree with you about shayla. she is a good dancer but no way was she the best. she had to use effort whilst rueben was so natural. i just cant see why people say those negative things about rueben at her expense, she dd not appear light footed and natural but just a hard worker who danced well. The best person won. i even believe pinky is a better dancer than shayla

omg ruben is the best i loved kim since day one he put the most effort and is looking more fab than ever

I think you did a god job with the dances and u was my fav. I think u finally learned how to take cae of yourself and your disease. Keep up the good work and I bet in the near future u may be able to go of the diabetic meds. Watch your card intake and the sweets because diabetes is extremely hard on the eyes and kidneys and I would hate to see u have to do dialysis or need a transplant later in life so continue to take care of yourself. u have to love and respect yourself if u want others to do the same. God has a plan for everyone so dont worry about the things u can't change and work on the ones u can. Your a nice man and it will all workout. Don't worry about the negative comments people say because u only have to answer to yourself and God. Good Luck to both u and John

SHAME ON ALL....who commented on the lifestyle of Ruben. You should all be happy of the achievement that Ruben made as he accomplished a very difficult task in his life and that is to be HAPPY about himself. We forget that it's contest and it's for everyone to have fun. If Shayla and Pinky wanted to win, then they should have worked harder to achieve the goal just like Ruben did loosing the weight. Ruben enjoy your life and be happy, good for you and best of luck.

First CONGRATULATIONS!!! to RUBEN and Second...SHAME ON ALL

All in All Ruben won..Fair or not!! I hope he doesn't still continue to play the martyr & give ALL HIS WINNINGS to that man he's with. UUGGHHH!! YUK..That's all I have 2 say

This show was like a fat Ripley's Believe it or not!!They really mocked you w/ those outfits..did u see the HUGE girl in that tight purple outfit??OMG!!!LOL!! I do hope that they ALL continue to lose weight but WE ALL KNOW that if one of them do..it would be a miracle. They let themselves get like that for a reason...LAZINESS

I agree!! I think Ruben deserves someone young & fun..not some old guy who never smiled & seemed chronically depressed. I also think the competition should of been seperate between the men & women. Ruben should not have won...Shayla deserved the CROWN!!!!..RUN RUBEN...RUN!!!! ( away from John)

I agree!! I think Ruben deserves someone young & fun..not some old guy who never smiled & seemed chronically depressed. I also think the competition should of been seperate between the men & women. Ruben should not have won...Shayla deserved the CROWN!!!!..RUN RUBEN...RUN!!!! ( away from John)

I recorded & watched EVERY episode of DYAS..They should of judged the men & women sepert. Shayla was a much more powerful dancer..while Ruben showed the most improv...I think Shayla should have won!

Ruben i loved watching u on the show u were my fave i did'nt dislike anyone at all but ur story really touched my heart at times u brought me to tears witnessing the love and devotion u have for ur partner is amazing i wish u all the happiness in the world keep up th great work...

ruben i saw u win last night i was so very happy for u and ur family i wish i was as happy as u and ur family when u get some time plz email me at leona chavis piedmont.org6784928517 im longely

So is it true.... You ARE doing the work out video (DVD)??

I AM JAMAICAN LIVNG IN KINGSTON JAMAICA AND I CAN SPELL. I ALSO BELEVE THAT RUEBEN WAS THE BEST DANCER. EVEN THOUGH I AM A BLACK FEMALE AND DON"T APPRECATE GAY"S I THINK RUEBEN DESERVE TO WIN> FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO SAY HE WAS THERE FOR THE MONEY TELL ME WHAT IS WRONG WTH THAT? DD NOT SEE SHAYLA AS ANY GREAT DANCER ALSO> PINKY WAS BETTER> I REFUSE TO GET INTO THS RACE ISSUE. WHEN I SAW SHAYLA SHE LOOKED ROBOTIC AND NOT NATURAL> PINKY WAS MORE NATURAL AND RUEBEN WAS THE BEST ALL ROUND DANCER> RUEBEN AS WE SAY IN JAMAICA "BADMIND A KIIL DEM"

I have to start by saying that all the contestents were fantastic... It's truley amazing for each and everyone of them to get on national television and display themselves.. I don't watch alot of reality television because I think most of it is not entertaining at all, however, I was flipping through the channels and Dance your a** of was on and I started watching, and very surprised to say that I liked it... I watched a marathon of it and I was rooting for Rueben the whole time I am glad to see that he won... Not to say that Pinkie and Shayla were not good because they too were fantastic. He worked extra hard and lost the weight and kept up with all the dance routines.... Way to go Rueben keep up the good work...

I do hope you are not a Jamaican. You cannot spell, If you were you would know about dancing and rhythm and movement, shayla had that in abundance in every dance she did. The scoring was biased and the field not level. Ruben won the money but shayla won our hearts. ALL HAIL TO THE QUEEN!!!!

ruben i am glad that u won that u can keep up ur boyfriend's health

Wow, DaniD - how incredibily arrogant of you to try and tell someone who they should and shouldn't love. Obviously, age isn't an issue for Ruben and John. How shallow to assume just because Ruben's lost some nice weight now that he can look for someone new. I don't know why people always want to stick their nose and their opinions where they're not wanted. Can't we just watch something and have fun with it? Does it have to be about race, sexual orientation, men vrs women? No - this is meant for our entertainment. Why would they bother "rigging" the show? What would they accomplish? Makes no sense. And, yes, men lose weight faster and easier than women. That's why they used percentage of body fat lost as opposed to actual poundage. Also, not everyone weighed the same; another reason to use % vrs lbs lost. Common sense, people. Ruben, congrats. Very happy for your win. I wish you & John well. Pinky & Shayla, nice job - I'm glad you made it as far as you did. I'm not a professional dancer, so I can't expertly state who was truly the better dancer. I found the judges' statements to make a lot of sense. I did not see that they were favoring anyone. What I do see, in this blog, is how uneducated a good number of the general public are; I find that a bit scary.

Congrats again Ruben! You were Amazing I can't wait to watch the reunion. I enjoyed watching your performances you did great. I knew that you would win. You did it for yourself and that's a big accomplishment. Great job! I hope that you and john live another 20 years or so.He must have been really proud of you1 I would love to meet you one day! feel free to e-mail me on bermudacutie22@yahoo.com I would l;ove to hear from you and the inspiration on DYAO.Keep up the Good work U are an Amazing person. Don't let anyone tell you different.

It is so sad to see that so many people have such low self esteem that result in being haters and poor losers. Ruben won, he was rewarded for his effort, dancing and losing weight, all finalists were great and any of them that would have won it would have been very well deserved. Ruben congratulations on winning not only the show and the prize, but for winning the control of a healthy life back and for having love in your life. Thank you for the inspiration, you'll all be missed.

Ruben I'm so happy u won! Just sorry i missed the last show. But have tried to find it on-line to watch it. I was always in your corner from first show. My grandson was sick so I missed the last dance. But want to see the last show sooooo bad! If there is anyway to watch can someone let me know please email me at fturner44@yahoo.com Ruben you rocked, no sexuality or where u came from doesn't matter. Reasons for coming on show clearly was for yourself. Cause that had to be hard to practice all the time. Not to meantion eatting right. Keep up the great job to all of the dancers u all were winners in the only way that really matters. Enjoy your lives without being bitter and really get more out of what u all done for yourself. Ruben u were there for ur self all along. And with John on your mind it could seem it was about money to help him. But u proved yourself to him for 20 years. Sickness and health goes along ways. Alot of relationships don't stand that long without sickness, be proud i know John is, and his is truly for all the right reasons! money helps, But money can't buy that kind of 4ever. My great love of a lifetime has been gone 11years almost. Would have done anything for Glenn, if I could have danced my a** off to help him, not to worry 1day of what he had left. Even to pay medical bills to or for him to have been here 1more day with me. I hope u both have another 20years together. Your truly a lovely person. ENJOY THE REST OF YOU LIVES!!!!!!!!!!! god bless

To Me, My daughter watched the show every week she told me that John had insurance the insurance company dropped him.

No need to apologize - I'm not upset at all. You do need to get a life thought coz YOU ARE PATHETIC!!!

Listen...sorry..did not mean to upset you.

Ruben kept crying saying "I'm doing this for my John" but he's just a huge contradiction. Now he's say's " for the first time in my life I did something for me"..I think he's confused. If his partner was such a 'catch' why doesn't he have insurance to pay his OWN bills? I mean. common now. reality check!!!

You are taking this way too personally not to be Ruben. Hi Ruben!! I did like you but now I wish that Shayla won...let's face it, she's more masculine than you Ruben!!! I think they should never of had the men competing w/ the women..since they are comp. diff. in every way. I have the right to offer my comments...this is a comment blog page...isn't it? Why are gays so nasty & bitter anyway?

Rude and distasteful?? Did you read your comment to John? You are not only disrespectful and cruel to John you are also disrespectful to Ruben. Who are you to say who's best for Ruben? Ruben know's who's best for Ruben....leave him alone.

You KNOW you were shocked to see that his partner looked & acted like that!! I expected so much more. See how being fat really does affect your esteem & judgment??

I WANTED RUBEN TO WIN IDIOT!!! I want to see him w/ someone he can actually enjoy life w/..THAT's ALL!! As for seeing 2 people in love..There is nothing more beautiful & precious to me...SO THERE!! LOL!!

I think your comment was rude & distastful. I just want Ruben to enjoy life. Ruben said he's been w/ this man for 20 years? At that point he was 20 & this man was MUCH OLDER!! How unfortunate !!! John's just a dirty old man who will spend ALL OF Ruben's winnings!! If he cared about Ruben AT ALL he would never accept any of his money..he would want Ruben to put that money away for His future. WAKE UP!!!! A HOLE

To Dani D and Me....you both sound jealous and bitter to me. Is it painful for you to see a couple love each other deeply? Get over it... Ruben WON the competition and he's got the love of his love on his side.

Ruben...I think you should move on...away from John. You went on this show because u know moving on is inevitable. John is much older than you, he looks like a very sickly, old man..( or like an old alcoholic). When I saw him for the first time ( like the rest of the nation) I was shocked!! YOU are too young & handsome for him. Find someone to enjoy life with....AND STOP BEING A MARTYR!!

To Fan of Ruben John never had ANY reactions...other than him prob thinking " OMG I can pay off that mounting debt...FINALYYYYY"...He was STOIC the WHOLE TIME!!!

I thought the best contestant won. Ruben consistently scored high in both the dance and weight loss - he played well the whole way through. His story was moving too. I also thought the best three were in it at the end and any one of the could have taken the prize. Shayla should have gotten higher dance scores on her lyric jazz but - those are the breaks. She's sooooo beautiful - her life will open up because of this show. LOVE DYAO!

John's reaction to your winning is priceless. I played that scene over and over again at my DVR and never failed to move me...I was in tears. It was clear that John loves you deeply....he didn't have to say a word - his action says it all. I enjoyed the dancing, the competition, the show but most of all I came to appreciate the love you have for John. Great to hear that he's better. Love you Ruben.....my family are rooting for you.

to..MJT..I don't agree..Shayla was overly dramatic & not very REAL to me..it's more than just Ruben's dancing, it was his REALNESS. Shayla? PLEASE!

I thought Ruben was great but I thought Shayla should have won. The judges cheated her. She clearly had the best finale performances. They picked the Rhumba for her and even one of the judges called it a snoozefest so then why give it to her!!! Just my opinion. I am happy for Ruben but sad for Shayla.

Take the money & RUN..Ruben!!!

I was so happy you won that i cried!!! i wanted you to win from the first time i saw you!! you look amazing! i wanted you to win beacuse from the beginning it wasnt about the money it was about you then you wanted the money to help out john....you have a big heart and i enjoyed watching you from the beginning. good luck to you and john for a beautiful future!!!

Hi Ruben!!! Congrats!! Too bad your gay!! I found you sexy towards the end..you looked like a sexy spanish man!!HA!! PLEASE don't spend ALL your $ on your lover/partner..save SOME for U..I cannot stress this enough..you deserve a happy life. I know you really love him but after seeing him..I think you should MOVE ON!!! ( sorry Ruben)!!You still have youth & a zest for life..unfortunatly he doesn't anymore. I don't mean to appear heartless..I just want you to be w/ someone as beautiful as YOU!!! GOOD LUCK!!

Congrats Ruben! You were my family's favorite from the first week. Your transformation has been amazing. Plus you kicked @ss in the dancing! Well done, keep it up. Can't wait to see the DYAO video.

Ruben thank you for the kind words I just love you to pieces. Please please enjoy your amazing accomplishment. Focus on everything you have done and everything you still continue to do. We all love you xoxo Shayla

I agree 100% and I also think that there should be a weight limit of 200lbs or more. Anything under 200lbs isn't fair to those that were really overweight. If you're under 200lbs, you're not really considered obese or overweight. I wish I was under 200lbs!

As someone who has spent her whole life dancing I can truly say that there was nothing even remotely inspiring about Reuben's performances. Shayla and Pinky both had some of their best performances while dancing on an injured foot. Dancing through the pain took a lot of inner strength and courage. Alicia wasn't my favorite contestant but at least she was passionate about dancing. Reuben's performances lacked heart and felt empty. There were many times the judges gave him a 9 or 10 when the performance was actually a 6 . In my soul I feel Shayla should have won . It's no accident that even people who liked Reuben agree that Shayla was the performer to watch. I still remember some of the gutsy dance moves she pulled off week after week. She did splits, lifts, cart wheels, dips and turns with enough grace and skill to make any plus sized person proud and inspired. It's a shame that the judges gave high scores not to the best dancer, but to the person with the best sobb story. The producers of the show need to stick to the theme of dance and fitness. Save the tears and sobb stories for Oprah.

100% agree with ur comments about the RUMBA. The producers had the worst mixes for this competition, the music is on the left and the dancing on the right. Like it doesn't match... want to watch serious dancing to real tracks watch MTV's, ABDC (America's Best Dance Crew) VOGUE EVOLUTION will leave u frozen in time. Now, that is what I call talent at the arts of dancing. Stop expecting so much from this individuals, you just don't get it, these people tried very hard. Love them for their efforts and not b so judgmental and most of all rude.

It WOULD BE UnFAIr TO solicit any comments on this.!! SUfficient to say that it would be like probing the net to give a lowfull opinion on nothibg. and I am no hiprocrit. It's not goodto ask for you to give a comment on nothing. Leave it to God !!! AH, ah,they say it is ft more good to sulicity a responce to a foot-rag to a competiter jn the race mefore it.s run. But it will all go well now that all the track races R over@hail.com why? _Because all the leg races are over, that's all. I will endeavor to have the track & field events completed and reported on befour I go about the questions.

Congradulations! You deserve to win!! Great job!

Ruben you and shayla did a great job losing weight and dancing. i wish both of yall could have win but you won and that is great also. keep up with your weightloss you can do it!!!! congrats!!!!!

whenever you have a dance and weight loss competition with men AND women, the men have the obvious advantage. men lose weight faster than women and their job in partnered dancing is nothing compared to a woman's. most of it is their upper body strength which is mostly natural. did you do a good job? yes. did you lose a lot of weight? yes. and your transformation so far was amazing, but did you deserve to win? no. shayla and pinky are on another level, but at least you really could use the money. i wish you success in your life and hope you keep up the healthy lifestyle!

Although I am thrilled Ruben won, I feel that the judges were a bit hard on Alicia. I am THRILLED that she won the $5,000.00!!! But I also think the 2nd and 3rd place winners should have something, anything!!!!

I totally agree with: Ruben u rock!!! I wish nothing but the best for you and John. You totally deserved to win!!!!

Ruben u rock!!! I wish nothing but the best for you and John. You totally deserved to win!!!!

i completely agree that ruben's cowboy number deserved a 6 or 7. shayly deserved 10's. i think it's because of the whole cancer issue with his partner.

You are out of ur mind if u think Ruben out danced shayla last night, completely smacked out of ur skull. His cowboy number deserved 7's and 6's. Really... ur going to compare line dancing to lyrical jazz give me a break.

It is unbelievable all of the ignorant comments that some of you people made. It is very apparent that race was NOT an issue--that Ruben did do this for himself and NOT just for the money--and yes I did like Shayla, but Ruben out danced her last night. All of the contestants did a wonderful job and it is an absolute SHAME that everyone is picking apart the judging and the contestants....f**k you!!!! Good job Ruben and may you continue in your success

Congratulations to Rueben on winning! And now my comment for all the people making judgements and negative comments.... For those claiming race was an issue, did you realize that Rueben is Hispanic, same as Pinky? For those saying he shouldn't have won because he's gay, this is the 21st century not the 19th. For those saying Shayla should've won, get over it, she didn't. If you don't like how they run the show don't watch it again! That's why they make an "off" button (and the same comment to the anti-gay group who complained about Rueben's lifestyle being an influence on kids). Again, congrats to Rueben - you have inspired me!

I really think they cheated alicia out of the finalist spot. She did lose a lot of weight to, but I still don't think she could have won against Ruben

if thats the case @kat they weren't going by those rules for some like pinky. she was in the bottom majority of the competition. It was just weird, the best person won of course.

Tatianna - No you are soo rude for bringing this into Rubens blog. He won so get over it. I saw a you tube of a classic rhumba and sorry Shayla's wasn't really like that. Make whatever excuses you want it's over honey.

Ruben regardless of what all these HATERZ have to say. I think and believe that you DESERVED TO WIN.... you were the one to lose the most weight.... and you truly danced your a** off. Yeah Shayla could dance but like Danny said, "Some people think on thing will take care of the other" and you have to admit that Shayla wasn't losing TONS of weight.... She was in the bottom 2 like 3 times..... With that said. Ruben I wish you the best in everything you do, keep up the weightloss. I can't wait to see next weeks reunion to see if you've lost any more weight. God Bless Ruben.

Lynn, you are absolutely right! Shayla was given low scores to secure Ruben's victory!

I believe all of the final three had talent. Had it not been for family week not eliminating anyone I believe Alicia woul have made it to the final three. That being said to me I feel the weight loss was the more important issue. And Reuben won that also. I wish the best for all the contestants and I hope they continue with the weight loss.

Bravo Ruben you are an inspiration to everyone. You are a great dancer and your warmth and kindness shows in your eyes. I hope the money will help you take care of your belofed John too. Be proud of yourself, You accomplished an amazing goal. xxxxxx

u idiot ruben danced his freakin a-s-s off so shut it

Austin what the hell r u talking about?? You are soo rude. I happen to be a dance teacher for 5 years know and know that she did dance the rhumba correctly. She deserved traight tens. She deserved to win and the judges wanted ruben to win. The finale should have been amix of the judges scores with a call to vote. Shayla or pinky should have one. Ruben did nothing that spectacular.

O.K yes Ruben you are a good dancer but the thing is you knew you would when you what to say to have the judges take pity on you so you wouldn't go home for the score and being a bigger frame with a lot(well used to to be)loose fat which did go away fast but I know that you wanted that money for Jon but I really think Shayla should have one to win but I am some-what happy for you Ruben.

You did a great job on all the waltz. However, everyone one knows Shayla was the show. She was supposed to go home long before she finale - however she stayed - the producers knew they could not vote her off - the show would suck without her.

you did a good job for being the oldest one there. you dance great and you lost alot of weight. Keep it up!!!! But, I feel shalya should have won. Sorry for saying that but that is the way i feel. But you did a goob job also. So I am glad you won anyway

Ruben: I congrat you on your win. This is the first reality show that I felt was honest and accurate. Can't wait to see the rerun of your win (we had a hugh thunderstorm in Melbourne and I lost my Directv signal - bummer). Checked the website because I was anxious to learn the winner. Totally elated that YOU won. Of all the contestants - you were sincere, worked hard each week, danced with skill and character each week. Your partner Hilary was awesome. At first she made you look good. In the end you made her look good. Your "need" to win the money to help your partner only made me root for you more. God bless you and good luck - much success in the future. You are a role model for the saying " you can reach your goal if you try hard".

i am happy for you cause you needed the cash but come on you must admit yourself that shayla was in a different league than you dance wise - and pretty close with the weight loss depite her much smaller frame than you. she should have won, you know it. you were good at ballroom, yeah - cute. that's all my friend. but shayla turned out to be a real dancer/performer - she carried the whole show to a different level - otherwise it would have been a JOKE!

Ruben you have truly been an inspiration to me.I had given up on changeing my life.At 270lbs I have tried everything including vertical banded bypass surgery which has just caused me problems.After watching you transform I am ready to try this,I wish you well with everything in life.Keep smiling and being yourself.

Congratulations Ruben! You were my favorite since day ONE, and I'm so happy that you won! Pinky and Shayla did awesome and any one of them deserved to win, but I'm glad it was Ruben in the end! How great did (almost) all of the returning contestants look? Can't wait for the reunion show next Monday!

Congrats Ruben! You pushed hard and accomplished a lot! Best of luck to the two of you. I was really pulling for you to win, and was impressed with your progress, effort, and the reason for wanting to win the prize money! Bright Blessings and good health to you both!

Congratulations on everything you achieved. A healthy and positive outlook most of all. You wear confidence well, even dapper in the lifestyle spread. I wish everyone the ability for that kind of transformation when needed.

YOU ROCK RUBEN!!!!!!!!

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Everyone on here is so mean. I think all of the contestants did great, but Ruben lost tons of weight the whole time and danced amazingly. Of course he did do it partially for the money...who wouldn't! They all did, but he put forth a HUGE effort n deserved the win. Someone said men lose weight more easilly than men and that may be true, but all of the women knew they were competing with men from the get go and it should of pushed them even harder. Also, it is not a bad influence to children to have a gay man win...if you have such a big problem with someone gay dancing...well for one good luck trying to find a male dancer that isn't...and for two dont have ur children watch the program. Wow...people are harsh. Good job Ruben!

Why are you people whinning in this blog. Go to the blog of the person who think was cheated and whine there. The education level of most posters in here has to be around 8th grade.

Your an inspiration to us all... Congrats Ruben you deserved it!!!

Ms Mcneill. Who the hell cares? Email the producers. SHAYLA LOST BECAUSE SHE DIDN'T DO THE RHUMBA CORRRECTLY .. why do you think she should get great scores for that. Geez. She even admits it in a community thread - she and her dance partner had no say in the choreography - she knows it wasn't a classic Rhumba. That is why she lost . HELLO - ARE YOU PEOPLE STUPID???? or just so committed to thinking somebody got cheated? Get a freakin life

I totally agree with kk

It is a known fact that men lose more weight than woman, so that was totally unfair to the females. Ruben had previous dance experience as well. I also feel that his partner did all the work and he did not deserve to win. I am disappointed in the outcome. Pinky or Shayla should have won it, hands down!

I am soooo disappointed.This show was promoting Ruben from the get go....it was obvious who was going to win.Showing all the clips with Ruben crying that his lover has cancer,and no insurence, etc, etc....we did not see any other sob stories to sway the audience...If judging had been honest, Shayla, or Pinky, who ran a very close second to Shayla would have won, hands down.Shayla's performances on the last night were close to professional. Pinky's improvment week to week was nothing short of amazing. Booooooo Ruben. Your dancing was merely OK. on the last show, where you won, your performances were not good, like you knew you had it won. Do not think that I will watch future shows.....this was way too disappointing.

Hillarious that you people think he was the only one there for the money. Please people - you can't be that stupid.

Reply to: lindseyh, About your comment= (the only thing i don't like about reuben is that is Gay and it is a bad influence to kids but he deserve to WIN) Right, now that it's clear that adults have influences on Children, you might want to let all parents know how they have messed up their children. All the hate they taught and destructive behaviors they have developed. Oh!.. We can write a book about those influences don't you think? If your parents would have only teach you to love, you might have turn out better.

Good gosh Ruben. You are so full of yourself. Im disappointed with the judging. You only did this for the money. You even admitted it. You are not a winner. Just a wanter! Hope you have fun.

I DO NOT think Ruben should have won. He did not do this for himself. He did it for the money, and that it not something that should be rewarded. Pinky was there to better herself, she should have won. SORRY RUBEN. I WOULD HAVE VOTED YOU OFF! YOU DID NOT DESERVE TO WIN!!!!

I dont thnik that ruben should have won at ALL! The only he looked like he did good was because of his dance partner. She had and did more moves than he ever did. I strongly disagree with the judging, he should have gone home!

I thought Ruben was the best from the very beginging, he worked hard and was always on top, plus his money may save his partners life, God Bless You Ruben, God knows your intentions were real, your a winner !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It never ceases to amaze me how race always come into play. I am so tired of people, when talking about a black person, crack or some degrading substance has to be connected to that person. People of all races have trashy, low-life poeple of no moral values. The internet is an amazing and useful tool, however any old coward can hide behind it and express the garbage they store inside. Garbage no one else cares to hear. It also amazes me to see people post under several names to make their point come across as if a lot of people agree with them. I am also tired of all of this noise and think I am just going to pass on this show next year and let the true "haters" (haters of poeple different from themselves) keep their hate to themselves.

I am happy for Ruben as he did very well with the weight loss, however not as great with the dancing. I think that the judge who that gave Shayla an 8 was not reasonable as they were all very good at this point and worked very hard to be they were. I think the judges hit hard on Shayla especially when knowing that Ruben's first dance should have truley earned 8's all around. Also, I think that it is unfair that the 9 loosers had the chance to win $5,000.00 and that Shayla & Pinky earned absoloutley nothing for coming in at 2nd & 3rd place. Very dissapointed with the judges and how they scored unfairly.

I agree that Reuben should have won because the shou is about losing weightand not dancing. the only thing i don't like about reuben is that is Gay and it is a bad influence to kids but he deserve to WIN. thank GOD alicia was voted off an i don't think she deserved that $5,000 dollars it should have went to shayla because she worked hard and i was too mad when they voted mara off and kept alicia

Ruben you have always said that you wanted to win so you can help your partner, i feel that you did for him and not for you,and i also feel you should not have won and you know it.

CONGRATS!!! RUBEN BEST OF LUCK TO YOU AND JOHN!!!BEST WISHES

I DONT THINK THAT RUBEN SHOULD HAVE WON BECAUSE TO ME HE REALLY COULD NOT DANCE. I UNDERSTAND THAT THE SHOW IS ABOUT WEIGHT LOSS BUT AT THE SAME TIME I FEEL LIKE SHAYLA DESERVED MORE THAN HE DID. SHE WORKED JUST AS HARD AS HE DID. I BELIEVE THAT SHOW MADE THE WRONG DECISION ABOUT WHO WON THE COMPETITION. ITS GOOD THAT RUBEN LOST WEIGHT BUT I DONT THINK THAT HE DESERVED TO WIN.

congratulations Ruben...You were my favorite since day one...

I WAS SO GLAD THAT ALICIA DID NOT WIN, SHE HAD A BAD ATTITUDE AND THAT MADE HER UGLY AND I DON'T THINK SHE DANCED HALF AS WELL AS ALL THE OTHERS THAT WENT BEFORE HER.

I AM SO HAPPY RUBEN WON, HE WORKED HIS BUTT OFF AND HE LOOKS GREAT. HE IS JUST A REALLY NICE PERSON AND HE WAS THE BEST RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING

Ruben I am elated at your win. I will miss seeing you and the goodness you project. Because of you I became involved with the show toward the middle of the season. Your heart and spirit and committment impressed my whole family. I wish you all the success, happiness, and good health to you and your partner. Take care.

Ruben I am elated at your win. I will miss seeing you and the goodness you project. Because of you I became involved with the show toward the middle of the season. Your heart and spirit and committment impressed my whole family. I wish you all the success, happiness, and good health to you and your partnes. Take care.

Congratulations Reuben. Excellent job.

THE ONLY REASON WHY ALL YOU A******* AND B****** COMMENTING ON HERE ARE PUTTING RUBEN DOWN IS BECAUSE OF HIS SEXUALITY AND YOU KNOW IT! JUST BECAUSE HE IS GAY DOESN'T MEAN THAT HE WAS GIVEN SYMPATHY TO WIN THE SHOW! HE WON IT FOR HIMSELF AND WORKED HIS a** OFF! ALL THE CONTESTANTS DID A GREAT JOB AND MOST OF YOU ONLY CARE ABOUT WHO SHOULD HAVE WON. RUBEN WON FAIR AND SQUARE AND YOU ALL NEED TO GET OVER IT AND GROW THE F*** UP!!RUBEN DON'T EVEN WORRY ABOUT WHAT THESE PEOPLE HAVE TO SAY THEY ARE JUST ALL A BUNCH OF HATERS. I WISH YOU AND JOHN ALL THE BEST!! I HOPE THAT ONE DAY I CAN MEET YOU IN PERSON!! YOU WERE AMAZING OUT THERE AND U DANCED YOU A** OFF.ALL THE BEST IN THE FUTURE!!

Haters!!! I am so proud of you, when you won I cried like it was me winning.....love you much, keep it up!

Ruben congratulations on your win. I think the final 3 were all great but I loved to see you come out and dance every week and see the change in you. You got slimmer and slimmer and your dancing got better and better. This show was based on dancing and weight loss and you definitely lost the most weight. It was not about sexuality at all and definitely not racist. I think you were right in showing your love to your partner. You are comfortable with your sexuality and have nothing to be ashamed of. This money will help a lot with his treatment since he lost his insurance. I wish you continued weight loss and success with whatever you do in the future. I will miss watching this show every week. I always looked forward to watching you dance.

My partner and I were so happy to see you win. We watched the show religiously. You are such an inspiration and deserved to win. Right from the start you gave it your all and the result was no surprise, at least not to us. Good luck with life, health and happiness!

thanx a ton ONEVEIWER. I was totally mad and now i am fine. I forgive jamacan and and i Still think RUBEN is the best!

Congrats Ruben! You Did an Amazing Job! I have enjoyed watching you on the show and you look Absolutely Wonderful. You worked really hard during the show, and I knew you could do it. I was positive that you would win the show at the end! You dances and outfits were absolutely Gorgeous! I hope you partner john is doing well and has a successful recovery. I know how excited you must have been to see him on the show at the season finale! Good Luck with everything I wish u and john all the best in the future. You Look Fantastic!! I would rate your show as a 10

Congrats Ruben!. Also love the judges on this show who actually give constructive criticism that help the contestants get better every week. Way to go Dawg!. lol

CC you have to forgive Jamacan, either she can't read or she has no home training. At either rate, we all understand what you said. It was a very nice comment.

I knew Ruben would win from the first time I saw him. Congrats Ruben

I am on CC :^)'s side. You know a lot of people writing aren't saying nice things. RUBEN IS THE BEST!!!

GOSH!?! Of coarse Ruben was the best Dancer on the show. I was talking about all of the people who wrote something bad about him. You are SO rude JAMACAN.

ARe you implying that rueben won based on sympathy. Are you sayng he had no talent? I am not a gay fan but pleeeeaaaaaasssseee look over ruebends pieces. The man can dance and hes talented too. You haters are all talking about shayla ths and that> she s not the best dancer , rueben s and Pinky is talented . Last night she shone. I am a black woman and I will not get into the race ssue. As for usng viewers to judge , we all know what would happen . Blacks would vote for Shayla and anti-gay would vote against rueben. Also the fact that rueben is over 40 shows that he is also great and that age. The best person won and I thnk pinky out danced shayla last nght. She did. She was also beautful too.

OMG! Ruben no matter what any one says we know that you deserve to win and you DID. Congrats Ruben! YOU DANCED YOUR a** OFF!!!

Although there are poor losers I am not I just stated fact AND FOR THE RECORD NO ONE ON THIS BLOG IS LOSER CAUSE WE WERE NOT ON THE SHOW. TO SAY WE ARE POOR LOSER WHEN MEAN WE HAD TO BE ON THE SHOW. I THINK PINKY AND SHAYLA HAVE HANDLED LOSEING VERY WELL

i love u ruben! i have cheered for u from week one. congrats and keep it up!

I was so....glad you won!!!You earned it,you worked so hard.I hope John does well.Best of luck to both of you. LOL....Janice,from Statesville,NC

First of all I think Pinky's freestyle was great and Rueben's own was just exciting. Shayla's own was the worst of the three ans t was also good but someone had to be the best. As to the assigned dances , why can't people admt that Rueben's was the best and pinky was Hot too. On the nght rueben and pinky were both better than shayla. Incidentally I'm black and i dont think shayla s a better dancer . Rueben is. BE FAR. I am not a gay fan ether so dont think i am. The best person won. RUEBEN. YOU ARE ALL POOR LOSERS. RUEBEN YEH

First of all I think Pinky's freestyle was great and Rueben's own was just exciting. Shayla's own was the worst of the three ans t was also good but someone had to be the best. As to the assigned dances , why can't people admt that Rueben's was the best and pinky was Hot too. On the nght rueben and pinky were both better than shayla. Incidentally I'm black and i dont think shayla s a better dancer . Rueben is. BE FAR. I am not a gay fan ether so dont think i am. The best person won. RUEBEN. YOU ARE ALL POOR LOSERS. RUEBEN YEH

My comment won't be one of hate, it will be one of fact. The fact is there are no reality shows. People who do those shows like to bring drama, if they didn't people would not watch. Something has been brothering me since family week. If I was away from my family for a month I think, and then they come for a visit. The last thing I want to hear is that their insurance is about to run out or whatever he said. If it was true I understand how upsetting that would be, but my family member who I love very dearly would love me enough not to want to make me feel worse about being away from them. Am I the only one that finds that bit of new very timely? I also understand that I need to know about the insurance, but what can I do about it now. But who know maybe John felt it would make he work harder to win.----I don't think so. Let I said before people don't watch shows that don't provide drama. Let I said this comment is not one of hate. It is one of fact. Ruben won based on his weight lost. Ruben came to the show experienced in the dancing world. Ruben had a awsome partner. Shayla made it to the finale based on her talent. Shayla came to the show without experience. Shayla also had a awsome partner, but they also had a great connection. Pinky was the underdog, but last night she danced her a** off. I was very proud of her. She was better than both Shayla and Ruben. Ok now I will say this---- I want people to stop thinking that there should have been a black judge, that would not have made a difference. It wasn't racially bais (however you spel it) Let get pass that Please. Who care if Ruben is gay that is his choice (not mine), but his. What the show should have done is gave every one the same style of dance to go along with the free dance. At that it would have been fair. My hope is that if they do a "Dance Your a** Off II", that they will add the follow: 1. Let the viewers vote. 2. seperate the men from the woman. 3. bring the men and women together in last three or four shows, but no longer base it on weight loss, only on talent. 4. they score should be broken down like this------ %of calls+ % of weight loss+ judges scores. What we do not want is a show soley based on veiwers votes cause we all have seen how that can turn out. So I will end with these words--- Congrats to Shayla, Pinky and Ruben. Ruben I hope you use the money wisely. And just for the record I am very knowledgeable when it come to health insurance (John's health insurance) and Ruben we both know that was just a card you and John played. Good move or was it?

ruben I Love You!!!!So Happy You WON!!!!!Racist Please !!!!U S A

Rueben...Rueben...Rueben! I watched you for weeks and must say you are FANTASTIC!!! I'm so very proud of you and how you have handled yourself on the show. What dignity..I really hope that you continue sucessfully on your journey. I pray that your partner, John, can have good health and that you both stay focused on what is important within yourselves. Way to go and keep that beautiful smile! Thanks for the entertainment.

Sorry to see so many people with such bad opinions and bad English. The outcome was closer than I thought but Ruben was the winner and a deserving one. My hat off to Pinky who danced great with that bad foot and Shayla has come a long way! Juding was good and Lisa Ann was very dynamic in her juding dance skills. Good show. Congrats to Ruben and may him and John have only great luck in the future.

Tiff if you were listening you would of heard them say that they were weighed befor the compitition.

It seems grand diva that a black judge would not have mattered because Shayla likes whitemen so put that in your racist pipe and smoke along with your crack

This show was so exciting to watch.. Congrats to you Ruben, great job you worked so hard.

pooh if Shayla won then she would have the 100.000.00 thousand dollars duh

someone my sentiments excatly your someone that should grow up and get a life

WAY TO GO! Amazing journey and a wonderful ending. The transformation is wonderful and I send my best, my prayers and my love to you and John. YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEH!

I do agree that Shayla is an excellent dancer; however, Reuben's star shone a little brighter this time. No matter Reuben's lifestyle, he worked hard to get the weight off and perfect his dances; therefore, HE DESERVED the win. Congratulations on the win and the rest of your life, may it be wonderful.

First off upset what are little kids doing up at 10 oclock at nite watching television, second off it's people like you that make this world a messed up as it is grow up this is life after all we allow you to be here an idiot that can't spell

Firt off I am not gay second off you should learn how to spell. Talk about a stupid a--.

When i read alot of what people have to say about the reason Ruben won andthat Shayla should have won is rediculous Shayla should have gone home the nite that she did't win if anyone played on the judge it was Shayla and I say one judge that was more intreged by her looks then by her dance Danny he did a grave dissservice to the other contestants by letting her stay hip hop was Shayls's game. All the negative things that people say about Ruben is because one they know nothing about danceing and two I think that many of these people have never competed in anything and that is why they can't deal with Ruben winning, he by far was the best dancer, the person who lost the most weight, and could dance any kind of dance that was thrown at him for anyone to say the reson he won was because the judges felt sorry for him does not no what they are talking about. give credit where credit is due , ruben was fabulous I loved watching him and I prayed that he would win becausse he deserved it. Go Ruben

how the hell shayla surpose to win an she didn't lose the most weight ruben deserve too win ,this show is about who lose the most weight not who could dance the best. shayla was focus on dancing the best an not losing the weight an it cost her at the end . BUT CONGRATS RUBEN I LOVE YOU

how the hell shayla surpose to win an she didn't lose the most weight ruben deserve too win ,this show is about who lose the most weight not who could dance the best. shayla was focus on dancing the best an not losing the weight an it cost her at the end . BUT CONGRATS RUBEN I LOVE YOU

how the hell shayla surpose to win an she didn't lose the most weight ruben deserve too win ,this show is about who lose the most weight not who could dance the best. shayla was focus on dancing the best an not losing the weight an it cost her at the end . BUT CONGRATS RUBEN I LOVE YOU

how the hell shayla surpose to win an she didn't lose the most weight ruben deserve too win ,this show is about who lose the most weight not who could dance the best. shayla was focus on dancing the best an not losing the weight an it cost her at the end . BUT CONGRATS RUBEN I LOVE YOU

how the hell shayla surpose to win an she didn't lose the most weight ruben deserve too win ,this show is about who lose the most weight not who could dance the best. shayla was focus on dancing the best an not losing the weight an it cost her at the end . BUT CONGRATS RUBEN I LOVE YOU

how the hell shayla surpose to win an she didn't lose the most weight ruben deserve too win ,this show is about who lose the most weight not who could dance the best. shayla was focus on dancing the best an not losing the weight an it cost her at the end . BUT CONGRATS RUBEN I LOVE YOU

"UPSET" I think you are so stupid Ruben's sexuality had nothing to do with him winning the show . You need to look into your self and if you are so much a christian then you should know how to show love towards other your postings shows you are not better than what you speak against.

Ruben I just wanted to thank you for always encouraging me to go for what I want out of life. You really were like a father to most of us on the show. Whenever you spoke everyone listened because you are a natural born leader. Thank you again and congratulations!Love Shayla from DYAO

I can't believe the ignorance shown on here about Ruben's personal decisions. The show is based on the dancing and weight loss and Ruben did the best in both categories. He deserved to win and I'm happy with his outcome.

U SUCK U SUCK U SUCK U SUCK SOOOO MUCH

Ruben, you were my favorite from the beginning of the show. You didn't come out on the show and boo hoo a sad story, but unfortunately some bad things had happened to John while you were there and I'm proud of you for just sharing to this ignorant country your situation. You did dance your a** off and you deserved everything you got on the show. You look awesome with your dance partner and I'm proud of you on many levels. Congrats and take care.

Shayla really worked her a** off and shined on the dance floor as well. this show ripped her off....she should have won. i will not be watchin it if another show comes out!! and i know alot of other people who wont be.... the judges and the show was soo fake....worst show ever.....the only reason the judges where there was to shape the show the way the producers wanted it to go!!

I am so happy for you ruben I wish all three of you would of won cause you were all awesome. I am so sad to see the show end it was great motivation for me.

Congrat's on winning I can't believe the comments some people are so negative you deserved it every week you were the won to lose the most weight and you really did dance your a** off I enjoyed watching all of you I feel that nobody was a loser on this show everyone was a winner everyone try hard and lost weight even after they were off the show . I'm happy you won and don't listen to the negative things . Good job!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

TO CLD AND EVERYONE ELSE HATING ON RUBEN.. PLEASE.....SHUT UP! HE WON... AND HE DOESN'T CARE WHAT YOU SAY REALLY.. HE HAS SOOOO MUCH MORE THAN YOU.. SOOO IS IT THAT YOU HAVE NO LIFE?? OR IS IT THAT IT MAKES YOU FEEL BETTER TO TALK DOWN ON SOMEBODY ELSE BECAUSE YOU FEEL LIKE sh*t ABOUT YOURSELF?? REALLY.... NO ONE WANTS TO HEAR YOUR RELIGIOUS BS... NO ONE WANTS TO HEAR THAT YOU RATHER WANTED SOMEONE ELSE TO WIN... NO ONE WANTS TO HEAR YOU... RUBEN YOU ARE MY FAVORITE AND HAVE ALWAYS BEEN.. YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH JOHN IS SO SINCERE AND JUST REMEMBER THAT THE MAJORITY... ALL OF YOUR FANS LOVE YOU.... THE REST CAN STICK IT UP THEIR a**!!! HAHAH AND LEMME GUESS HATERS.. YOU'LL MAKE A JOKE ABOUT ME SAYING THAT TOO HUH? CUS YOU'RE SO PREDICTIVELY STUPID. GOODNESS.. I LOVE YOU RUBEN I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE YOU ON THE REUNION!!!

Ms Eyes, did You know the show was all about losing weight dancing?

Ruben congratulations on your winning I know u deserved it because u worked so hard to trim all the pounds off, and too bad Sheyla did not make it, but after all the show is to lose weight not to the best dancer, next time maybe she can be seen on Dancing with the stars that will be a different story. Best wishes for you and Jhon, can wait to see next weeks reunion I saw Miles today on the morning show and he looks HOT HOT HOT

MS. EYES PLEASE LEAVE YOUR RELIGIOUS BELIEFS TO YOURSELF, THAT NOT WHAT THE SHOW IS ABOUT. GAYS HAVE RIGHTS JUST AS EVERYONE ELSE.

Bonnie Beth Scott Gail and Jill Congrats We knew you could do it you always have!!!! WE ARE SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!!!!!!! Love you

I agree with Ms. McNeill Shayla was cheated out of a victory she deserved. I dont think I will watch the show again, because the simple fact is that the show is about who dances the best, not who can come with the saddest story and that is why she lost because she came to dance not beg for sympathy.

Ruben I was proud of your accomplishment,and we all knew that those judges was gonna let you win.But if it was gonna be fair it should have been a tie between you and Shayla.Her for dancing and you for weight lost then a way to have a dance off. That would been fair.Everything isn't about race bust most important things are and unless you have you head in the sand everyone knows it.I was not suprise that Alicia got the 5000 dollars. I won't watch anymore.

Ruben congrats, I would say that I am happy about your winning but I'm not. I'm not because I think that Shayla should have won, I do believe you played the sympathy role by always bringing up the situation with your lover. When someone talks about something over and over, it is either they want pitty or want to be heard. I really think they eased up with the judging towards you because of it and was a bit harder towards Shayla so that you could win, I could see that the judges wanted you to win a couple of weeks ago.

Ruben, CONGRATULATIONS! You've been an inspiration to all of us who are stuggling with their weights. You deserve to win this. Don't let anybody affect your good vibes. Ignore who are envious of you and never allow those wicked comments to ruin your happy moment. This is your time to enjoy and celebrate!!! Again, YOU DESERVE TO WIN!!! P.S. Hope to see you in person someday... :-)

ALL YOU PEOPLE, AND YOUR HORRIBLE COMMENTS, HE WON IT, SO GET OVER IT. HE DESERVED IT.SHAYLA DID NOT DESERVE IT, SHE WASN'T FAT IN THE FIRST PLACE. SHE ONLY CARED ABOUT THE MONEY.TO THOSE PEOPLE WHO SAY THEY ARE RACIST, HELLO SHAYLA WAS WITH A WHITE BOY. I WILL ALWAYS WATCH THE SHOW. CONGRATS RUBEN, YOU SHOWED THEM ALL!!!!

GOOD JOB TO ALL OF THE CONTESTANTS, BUT THE BEST MAN WON, RUBEN, OOPPSS HE WAS THE ONLY MAN IN THE COMPETITON. OH WELL HE WON ANYWAY'S YES, RUBEN!!!

I AM SO HAPPY THAT YOU ONE #1 WITH A BULLET! YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON AND ONLY GOOD THINGS HAPPEN TO THOSE WHO ARE DESERVING OF THEM. HOORAY FOR RUBEN!

dont judge people dumd a**

rubin i can tell you i am without a doubt your #2 fan. even iknow i can't say #1 that spot is for john.tell your sis i'm sorry but the best spot i will let her have is #3. you are my hero on so many levels. i hope to get to meet you sometime. i'm a friend of miles he can tell you what it would mean to me for you and john to visit salt lake. i would to talk to you in person. know that God is with you and john and this is just the start of good things for the two of you.

@808babe.. SHUT THE HELL UP STUPID AZZ FAG!!! OH AND DID I SPELL THAT CORRECT!!! DUMB AZZ

so true Sista K...I wish I could come on this blog and say the best man won...but we can't...

Ruben, you were absolutely amazing! My roommate && I were hoping you'd win although any of the three of you winning would've been just as good! Congratulations on your win && I wish you the best in your life && John's health. To all those inappropriate juvenile responses: Seriously GROW UP! You're all just mad because the person you wanted didn't win. They all worked hard together && got results. Rather than being rude && immature about the finale, be supportive of the fact that these individuals have come a long way from where they were in the beginning! Also, if you're gonna post things on here make sure you proof read && learn how to SPELL! It's embarrassing to see that people post things without checking to make sure it makes sense. P.S. WE LOVE YOU RUBEN!!!!

I am your biggest fan and you have inspired me to lose weight. I'm in the gay community in Grand Rapids, MI and we support you fully!!!

WAY TO GO! YOU LOOKED WONDERFUL! I WASN'T EVEN SURE IT WAS YOU WHEN YOU FIRST CAME OUT ON THE FLOOR. LET ME SAY IT AGAIN... YOU LOOK WONDERFUL!!! :)

SAMMERS TURK OFFICIALLY ENDORSES YOU!! Keep it up Skinny Ruben! Loved the cowboy dance!!!

Ruben...I have only watched 3 or 4 episodes so I am not biased as alot of these folks are about you...I didnt see you play a sympathy card...nor did I see all these so called bad dances...that didnt deserve 10s they are talking about that you did...but I did see this finale tonite as an outsider...and unfortunately, I will have to say...you didn't deserve to win the dance competition...but you did deserve to win for weight loss..ad you consistantly lost the most weight...But for the dancing...the young lady they call Shayla was the far better dancer. I also didn't undertand why the judges frowned and took notes during her performance...but cheered you and Pinky on during yours. Watch the tape for yourself and you will see what I mean. I know you worked hard so I know you wouldnt want to think that someone "gave" you a victory...but that you earned it. But honestly, I am saddened to say for whatever reason...they made sure you won this finale. And for this reason as a plus sized advocate, I can no longer support the show

I LOVE YOU RUBEN!!! TOOT AND BRIAN LOVE YOU! BIGGEST FANS OF YOUR DANCING AND BOOTAY SHAKIN!! way to go!

Congrats RUBEN, I knew you'd win! I voted for you and I was RIGHT! I'm so happy for you, keep up the good work!

Ruben Congrats! You did a wonderful job! I know weight loss goes as such; The more you weigh, the more LBS you loose at a time. Mind you it doesn't say you did'nt dance your a** off, cuz you did. I am glad to see you so open and care free about your life style. So many people are judged so harshly because of same sex orientation, and people hide because of it. Thank you for being confident and proud of who/what you are ^_^

Good comment Lynn. It's time for Reality shows to be honest and fair!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ruben, Your weight loss was great, and allowed you to win. Unfortunately, the judges chose to demean your victory by giving Shayla lower scores than she deserved. As a dancer, You were average at best-there were no truly great moves or risky jumps or lifts for you-only the girls. I am sorry, but the content of the dances was never given the value it deserved. Your win is tainted, but shouldn't have been. Shame on the judges for their short sightedness.

Linda, are you a professional dancer? Probably not!This was a dance competition that resulted in weight loss. The art was in the dance honey;the weight loss was the incentive.

Ruben, don't let negative posters take away from your winning. You did it, congrats. You represent what the show is about - weight loss in combination with good dancing. Your dance techniques won this for you. Props on the C&W - being from Texas I thought you did fabulous on that one. Good luck to you.

congrats you did it. keep up the good work.

WELL CONGRATS I REALLY WISH THERE WAS SOME WAY I COULD LOOSE THE WEIGHT I CARRY AROUND. WITH A BAD HIP THERE ISNT TO MUCH FOR ME TO DO. PLEASE KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK.HUGS TO YOU AND JOHN

You were great Ruben! Shayla was good, but definitely not the best. Besides, it was the PERCENTAGE of body weight lost that won it in the end anyway. Seems fitting since it is a weight loss show, dancing is the twist. Why must everything be broken down to racism and sexism? Every judging panel cannot have a white, Hispanic, Black, Asian, Middle Eastern, European, and on and on ad infinitum judge on it! OH, and one male and female of each. And one hetero- and one homo- of each ... and of each gender. And maybe we should add Catholic, Baptist, Atheist, Muslim, Methodist, etc too! SHEESH! Kudos RUBEN!

Congratulations on your win! Shayla was the BEST dancer and deserved to win. Your came into the competition with dance training which gave you an unfair advantage

Pooter the show was called"DANCE" your a** off. The dancing was the entertainment.DUH????? If Ruben was truly honest with himself he would say Shayla was the winner. Admit it and let that weight go Ruben. Entertain this- This would definitely be a different competition if it was a solo dance. Hmmmmmmmm????? Ruben's professional female dance partner was great. Again Ruben's female dance partner was great.

Congrats. I don't believe in your lifestyle but I know how cancer can affect one when their love one is hit with such an illness. I don't believe you should have won. Your routines were simular in most every dance style. However, sometimes God has plans that we as a human race don't understand. You lost the greatest amount of weight and that is a wonderful accomplishment. You however were not a ten, only your passion can classify you as a ten. In life sometimes it is one's passion for the goal they are to achieve that truly out weights their ability in achieving it. May you find Jesus Christ and may your partner John be healed. Blessing to you and your family in the future.

This show was rigged and for those of you that don't think so are most likely GAY!! So stop acting like you was rating the COMPETITION. And just admit you where rutting for your kind. Everyone that watched the show with open eyes know that SHAYLA WON THE COMPETITION.

Clearly Shayla was the best dancer and had the best poise throughout the show. The show was about dancing and weight loss and Shayla was consistent in both. She also knew how to express herself. Clearly the bigger you are the more weight you lose and Ruben showed no creativity he just twirled his partner around. The judges even said that the women had the more difficult part in the dances. Finally, America should have had a say in choosing the best dancer. Afterall, the viewers increase the ratings. I was a fan of Shayla from the beginning and I hope that she moves to higher heights because she was INSPIRING and TALENTED. Judges- YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED!!!!

Ruben... You should be very proud of yourself. You worked very hard and was consistent from the beginning. I wish you luck.. From La Habra California...

Way to go Ruben! Congratulations on ur winning. U have represented wonderfully and u have been consistent on both challenges. Wish u and john the best. This win was well deserved, love Android.

How could say that this is a racest show? maybe its just me, but there were people off all different races on...... how very racest indeed *that was sarcasm*

Stop U.S.A U.S.A!!!!!!! Think????

You did a good job and congratulations. I was rooting for Shayla though, because she is the best dancer, but it is hard for a woman to compete against a man in the weight loss arena. Plus unfair judging didn't help her either.

They cheated and you should have been eliminated a long time a ago....always giving gay bullcrap a cheer with pom poms...Shayla was suppose to have that $ this show needs at least 1 black judge...it was very racist and unfair

Congrats Ruben! Don't listen to anything negative these crazy people are saying... You deserved to win-- you DANCED YOUR a** OFF!!!

Congratulations Ruben, you lost the most weight and you deserved to win. However, I feel that Shayla gave one of her best performances tonight and she was not credited by the judges accordingly.

This is more or less a response to the 2 Comments from Chey, and Ms. Redd: First of all, If either of you believed that this show was rigged, why did you watch it? or are you just looking to make trouble?? Second of all, Whomever said that they were favroiting ruben, that a load of crap. all 3 of the finalests had good scores, They all did extremely well and all deserved to be there. Third, Chey, you are only looking for sympithy for there not being any black judges. Maybe they tried and couldnt get anyone, for all you know, the 3 judges that they have, were all 2nd,3rd, or 4th picks. so shut your yappers

I'm really ashamed of the sour grapes and childish comments being published...Shayla ad Pinky were more gracious than their so called "fans". Rueben worked hard & should be applauded..they all should be,not "sour grapes". Good job Rueben !!Good job Pinky & Shayla!!

I am still yust crying!!!!Ruben did you Mr. John face????? Iam yust crying!!!!!Lol SAndra

Awesome job Ruben in loosing all that weight consistently throughout the show. You definitely deserve to be the winner! As far as the people saying it was rigged... I have but 1 question for them. How could this have been rigged? Everything I'm reading states because of his partner. Well HELLO people... that didn't come to light until family week, in which nobody was sent home. That's 3 weeks ago! Ruben made it because of his weight loss and I admired how well he picked up the various dances. Again outstanding job Ruben! I wish you and John all the Luck in the world and hope the money helps John! God Bless you both!

Congrats Ruben, your WEIGHT loss is what got you where you are now, I think all the finalist were great dancers, but in the end, it was the weight loss that clenched it. the whole idea of the show. Take care an blessings for you and John

Ruben, I hope if you read these comments, you ignore the idiots who are prejudice. There was no contest in the weight loss or the dancing. I've lived 60 wonderful years and just retired from 36 of teaching. Your personality could have won it alone and I really, really wish you well.

Ms. Reed, this is not a political or religious forum, get off it! It's entertainments..i think they were all winners....It was very close, the finalists were all great! I applaud them all, they finished with class and grace. congrats to Rueben...great work!

I DO NOT think that Ruben should have ! He was a horrible dancer throught the whole show!!!! They had it rigged so that his a** coiuld win. Shayla sholud have won the entire competition she was the best dnacer on the show. The judges were totally unfair to her they always gave Ruben 10's all across the bored and lying just so his a** could have won! The show also did not have any black judges and that was unfair as well. I hope that if they bring this show back for a second season that they have black judges!!!

Ruben, you deserved to win. I was so tense watching it the first time, I had to watch it again right afterwards so I could enjoy it more. Good luck to you and your partner and may God bless!

BEING A GAY MAN IS NOT GOING TO BRING YOU ANY PEACEFUL DAYS. I THINK YOU ALL CHEATED. YOU DID LOSE ALOT OF WEIGHT BUT YOU DID NOT DESERVE TO WIN

CONGRAT RUBEN YOUR WORK YOUR a** OFF AND YOUR PERFORMANCE IN EVERY DANCE IS WONDERFUL. YOU ALL DID A GREAT JOB. IC AN BELIEVE PEOPLE POST ISSUES HERE. EVEN PINKY WAS MY FAVORITE. YOU LOST THE MOST WEIGHT AND WAS MORE CONSISTENT IN THE SCORE BOARD. I AM HAPPY YOU WILL ABLE TO HELP YOUR JOHN IN SUCH DIFFICULT MOMENTS. BEST OF LUCK FOR YOU!!!' ANGELA

ahhh!!! I'm so excited you won! You are such an inspiration to everyone!!! You should be so proud of yourself! =]

*HEALTHY*

RUBEN DID WORK HIS a** OF EVERY WEEK! EVEN WITH HIS PARTNERS HEALTH CONDITIONS ON HIS MIND HE KICKED a**. NOW THEY SHOULD GO ON A VACATION SINCE THEY ARE BOTH HEALTH.

I think Shayla last dance deserved all 10's. This is not the first time she had deserved a perfect score. When the judges go back and look at this show they will find out where they went wrong. Congrats to Rebuen he deserved to win, he did work hard

The only reason that racism is even an issue is because one chooses to look for it everywhere. If one looks hard enough for something one will find it. Lets just be happy for Ruben AND for Shayla. They both accomplished GREAT things!!

you know you didnt deserve to win you cry the hold time about your partners. all yall is racists as hell. i hate this show but u will get what you deserve. you want be happy spending that money cause yall cheated for it

Congratulations Ruben but the real winner is Shayla and I think deep down inside you know it.

I think it is racist to say the show is racist. this person probably didnt expect any of the black people to win because they are racist.

I didnt like alicia from the get go but when she won the phone call i hoped she would give it to ruben. pinky would have. i was hoping alicia wouldnt win the 5000.

you rock!!!!!!!!!!!!

Not everything that isnt won by a black person is racist. Ruben worked hard and proved himself every week.

They are weighed prior to the show. She wasnt weighed with the cast on. I think they should have mentioned that on the show to avoid the confusion.

PINKY SHOULD BE WEIGHED WITHOUT THE CAST ON. IT PROBABLY ADDED 2-4PDS. TO HER WEIGHT.SO UNFAIR IN A COMPETITION.

Just looking at this show for the first time and seeing all of the dancers, I was surprise to see how the judges cheated on Shayla who was the best dancer on your show. It's no reason to say anymore. I would not look at this show again and I'd rate your show as a three(3).

Just looking at this show for the first time and seeing all of the dancers, I was surprise to see how the judges cheated on Shayla who was the best dancer on your show. It's no reason to say anymore. I would not look at this show again and I'd rate your show as a three(3).

Just looking at this show for the first time and seeing all of the dancers, I was surprise to see how the judges cheated on Shayla who was the best dancer on your show. It's no reason to say anymore. I would not look at this show again and I'd rate your show as a three(3).

Just looking at this show for the first time and seeing all of the dancers, I was surprise to see how the judges cheated on Shayla who was the best dancer on your show. It's no reason to say anymore. I would not look at this show again and I'd rate your show as a three(3).

Just looking at this show for the first time and seeing all of the dancers, I was surprise to see how the judges cheated on Shayla who was the best dancer on your show. It's no reason to say anymore. I would not look at this show again and I'd rate your show as a three(3).

way to go Junior

way to go Junior